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The Downpipe That Took Six Months to Replace

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downpipe that took 6 months to replace

A year ago I noticed the downpipe adjacent our kitchen window was dripping more water that it was draining away during a heavy down pour. On closer inspection, I found the downpipe had rusted out and was so brittle I pushed my fingers through it.

Our house is only 11 years old, but the drip corrosion from our roof into the zincalume gutters had caused one to rust out. The whole rectangular downpipe needed to be replaced.

So dad ordered in 3 meters of Colourbond rectangular downpipe, which has been sitting in his garage since last year. It’s a miracle he didn’t run over it because it had been lying in the garage on the far side where he’d park his ute.

We finally organized to get the downpipe installed on Monday morning. My mum was booked to look after the girls while I helped where I could.

Had the downpipe been PVC, we would have had the job knocked over in an hour, but rectangular downpipe is different. It requires precise measurements and tin snips to cut out and create the angles to follow the outside angles of the house.

Dad arrived promptly at 8am to get started and mum was on her way.

While I was outside, the girls were getting antsy about not being able to get outside. So I asked Jacob to open a window that reaches the floor level so the girls could walk in and out. What I didn’t bargain on was the huge ant infestation that spread inside the house and outside the window when said window was opened.

Can you see Phoebe stuck behind the vegetable garden, calling out for a cuddle and to check out what was going on.
Can you see Phoebe stuck behind the vegetable garden, calling out for a cuddle and to check out what was going on.

A few sprays of Mortein and the ants were dead but there was a massive mess to clean up and Jacob had to leave to go to work. The buggers got stuck in the window tracks and the space between the windows. In the end I had to vacuum the mess because I would have gone through a roll of paper towel to clean it all up.

By this stage, my mum arrived and the girls were happy to see their grandma. Mum started making pikelets, while I remembered I had washing that had to be hung on the line. Once I got back to helping dad, he admitted he’d stuffed a measurement and would need to redo the bend again which would make the downpipe too short to meet the connection in the ground.

downpipe removed

pa working on downpipe

wrong downpipe

phoebe and pa downpipe

I know how easily done it is to incorrectly measure or not allow for a seam to create the 90 degree angles. I’ve never been a fan of sheet metal work. I’ve got too many bad memories from TAFE and too many stories of tradies cutting themselves on the sharp edges. Me included.

While I helped pop rivet the seams on the downpipe, my girls were eager to see what we were doing. Esther admitted she wanted to be a plumber so she could be part of the team.

the plumbette fixing downpipe
I told dad he could have told me my hair was messy and he replied ‘we’re replacing your downpipe, not at a beauty salon’

 

pop rivets downpipe
I love pop rivets

The downpipe ended up being too short, but we were able to fit in an old piece of the old downpipe to connect it down into the ground should we have rain before a new piece is ordered in.

bec with phoebe

 

Mummy and esther and phoebe downpipe

I have another downpipe that has rusted through, so we will be doing it all again. Hopefully we will get it right the second time.

finished replaced downpipe
Finished downpipe – with a piece of the old zincalume downpipe which we will replace when we order more in.

When to Check Your Downpipes

It’s important each season to check your downpipes and make sure they are connected from the gutter to the underground stormwater pipe. Gently press the outside of each downpipe to ensure it hasn’t rusted or isn’t brittle from age. Downpipes that can’t direct roof water to the stormwater drains have the potential to cause a flood outside the home, which is not ideal.

Installation and maintenance of downpipes are not jobs limited to licensed plumbers. They can be fixed without a plumber, however check with the local laws at the time as there has been changes to the AS3500 to include stormwater and downpipes as licensed plumbing work only. To be honest, most plumbers are quicker with the installation anyways. If the downpipe is rectangular and made from Colourbond or zincalume, a fair amount of skill will be needed to create the bends and angles. (as you can tell we haven’t done this in a while).

I’m glad it’s all fixed in time for our next heavy downpour which will be who knows when. Let’s hope it won’t be another 6 months before we replace the other one.

Do you regularly check your downpipes? Got a downpipe that needs replacing?

The Four Year Itch PLUS Giveaway

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four year itch

It takes 4 years to complete an apprenticeship or get a degree (if you study full time), it can also be the pinnacle year of a blogger because usually by the 4th year (sometimes it can come sooner) you can feel the four year itch – when you think about quitting your blog.

Back in February, I celebrated my 4 year blogging anniversary but like most anniversaries, they can be remembered, but not necessarily celebrated for the milestone they are. I’ve been writing consistently for 4 years. Well over 4 years now because we are well and truly into April.

A lot has happened in those 4 years and even though the blog has seen a lot of change in my life, there were goals I had expected to achieve by now, but I haven’t. And it’s not for lack of trying. It’s just simply because life has had to take a priority over my personal goals. I often get a little disheartened when I read about blog posts about ‘if I can write book while my child naps, you can too.’ The thing is we all parent differently, we all have different kids (some like to nap and some don’t) and we all have different values. I have no doubt that I will reach my goals, but family has to take priority at the moment.

So much of my life has been shared on this blog and it’s quite interesting to read back on where my life has led now from when I started writing 4 years ago.

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World Plumbing Day Ambassadorship For Women in Plumbing Award 11th March 2016

My writing has definitely improved from those early days of simple posts about plumbing. The personal posts always seem to bring in the numbers compared to the plumbing posts, but as long as the blog helps someone in some way, then my why has certainly been achieved.

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My life with three young uns.

Sometimes I forget this though. These last 8 months or so have been my hardest season blogging yet. I’ve been overcome with self-doubt and I had thought that 4 years in, I would be a bit further than I am now but I remind myself that Rome wasn’t built in a day and there is only so much I can do while mothering 3 little ones who are growing incredibly fast, and require a lot of my attention.

This year I’ve felt a little left behind. I feel the blogosphere is not only getting noisier, but the variety in content is being spread between podcasting to Youtube videos, to ebooks and the published book variety. The only things I can scrape together during the week are blog posts attached to an istockphoto because I’m not a brilliant photographer and can’t always take the image I want because I’m at home.

I have a lot to be thankful for though, and while I navigate change and doubt, I know every little step I make each week is a small progress to keeping the blog going. The 4 year itch has been alive and well this year for The Plumbette. But it’s an itch I’m happy to ignore for the moment.

The times when I wonder if the work I put into The Plumbette is worth it, I get a little reminder that my writing does mean something to someone.

After feeling quite disheartened on the weekend, I read this comment on a post I wrote for Be a fun Mum. I’m pretty sure it’s spam, but it still made me smile and was what I needed to read after a not so great week last week.

spam compliment

The good thing about doubt is it always prompts me to act. It compels me to keep going or stop and try something different. I prefer to keep going just for curiosity sake. And for the moment, I can’t get my head around doing anything different that works in with the flexibility I need while looking after my little ones.

My 4 year anniversary has prompted me to put together a giveaway of sorts just to say thank you for reading the blog and hanging with me when my life has been thrown a curve ball or two.

I would love for you to fill in my survey. It’s very quick, and will help me plan future content on the blog. I’ve had an increase in traffic this year (which is great!), but I want to ensure what is provided on the blog is useful to you.

I also have some cool prizes.

The First prize is a book by Lynette Gray called Women in Workboots. A compilation of inspiring stories of women who have broken through the barriers in male dominated industries. The book is a must read for women working as a tradie or in male-dominated roles. The women featured in the book share their stories of trials and triumph. I really believe any woman who reads this book will be inspired and motivated to breakthrough barriers in their career. It’s a great read and I’m very thankful I got to speak to Lynne earlier this year about her book and she happily agreed to send a book out as a prize.

There are 3 Garnier Beauty Prize packs worth $40 each. Truth be told I received my last Garnier hamper earlier this year and I am swimming in products, so I’d love to send some packs out so you can reap part of my rewards. There are two luscious hair packs which include shampoo, conditioner, texture spray and leave in serum. One pack includes Pure Shine Shampoo and Conditioner, 400ml Micellar Water, 200ml Beauty Oil Scrub and Ultimate Beauty Nourishing Oil.

The last prize is a $50 The Block Shop voucher which could come in handy if you are wanting to add some new homewares to your home. Especially if you see something that catches you eye while watching Reno Rumble or The Block later this year.

In order to be in the running for a prize, you need to fill in my survey and tell me in 30 words or less, if you could be a tradie, what trade would you work in and why? The most interesting answer will win one of the prizes.

I have to say thank you to all of you for reading The Plumbette. It’s been an incredible journey writing for 4 years, but I can’t wait to see what happens in the years to come. I always value your comments, emails and messages on social media. So thank you for being so awesome!

If you don’t already follow me on social media, I’d love for you to keep the conversation going on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.

Terms and Conditions

This is a game of skill. Each valid entry to be judged on creativity and originality, not by chance.

There are 4 prizes: 2 Garnier Packs worth $40, 1 Women in Workboots Book $29.95 and 1 $50 Block Shop Voucher.

Entries open from 6am Brisbane time Tuesday 5th April 2016 to Saturday 30th April 2016 12pm Brisbane Time.

Prizes are not transferable or changeable

Prize sent out by third parties will not be replaced in the event they are stolen, lost or damaged in transit or virtually.

Entry is leaving an answer to the question and filling out the survey.

A valid email address must be included in your entry. This email will be added to my newsletter, but will never be spammed or sent to third parties.

Entry into any giveaway or competition is deemed acceptance of these Terms and Conditions

Entrants must be Australian residents and aged 18 or over.

The winner will be notified by email and has 3 days to reply and claim the prize. The winner may be announced on Facebook. This giveaway is not endorsed by Facebook.

 

Undaunted and Fearless

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undaunted and fearless

I want to live undaunted and fearless. I don’t want to second question a person’s reaction to me, I don’t want to fear failure or the consequences of what might be. Undaunted and fearless should be a mantra all of us should live by. I actually stole the words from The Message Bible in the book of Joel and they resonated with me.

Maybe they will resonate with you? I believe these words are fitting for everyone – especially women who are breaking into the trade as a career. Or apprentices who need a bit of encouragement to keep going.

Being undaunted means you won’t let bad treatment get you down. Difficult jobs won’t deter you into quitting.

Being fearless means you will arrive to work and face the challenge anyway.

undaunted

Have you ever faced a job that scared you? For me it was on fixing a flashing on a roof. My dad told me too many stories of plumbers flying off a roof when the wind picked them and the metal sheet they were holding air bound. Working on a roof requires a harness now, but back in the good old days harnesses were a pain to work in. They’re not a pain if they save your life.

Anyway, any sort of roof project, I would swallow my fear of heights and just get on with the job. And interestingly when I focused less on my fear and more on getting the job done, the fear disappeared.

I’m not sure when my fear of heights began because when I was little, I loved going on rides that went really high or looking through the windows of Waterfront Place when I’d go to work with dad. I had little thought about the dangers, but as an adult, I can recognize the danger of what could be.

I don’t know what your life situation is like at present, but I hope that you can live your life undaunted and fearless. Whatever pressures are crushing you, you can still press on, without it impacting on your spirit.

When you are undaunted and fearless, you become unswerving and unstoppable. You are capable and skilled to push through your current circumstances. Feel the fear and only let it swerve you if you really are in danger. Most times our fears are based on what could happen and not what will.

Ever done a job that scared you? What was it and how did you complete it?

Are Water Flexible Hoses a Major Risk to Home Owners?

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water flexible hoses

Back when I was on the tools, I could count on one hand the amount of plumbing jobs Dad and I went to that had leaking water flexible hoses. Yet, a recent report on Channel 7 news featuring Calvin’s Plumbing has shown that there has been an increase in water damage from the hoses after they have ruptured. In fact, in 2016, one in every five water damage claims was for burst flexible hoses.

Calvin admitted to attending one job per week replacing faulty water hoses. But it seems to be more common than ever.

What Are Flexible Water Hoses?

Flexible water hoses are a stainless steel fabricated hose used to hook water to taps and fixtures.

Flexible water hoses have replaced the standard copper pipe installation from the wall outlet to the taps under sinks, basins and tubs. All tapware – whether mixer taps or hob mounted include flexible hoses as part of their hardware.

The hoses are also used on toilets as well and are used to replace the copper pipe connecting water from the stop tap to the cistern.

water flexible hose on toilet
flexible hose from the water stop tap to toilet cistern

To prevent a flexible hose rupturing in your home and causing a flood, here are some recommendations on what you can do to prevent a similar case happening at your property.

How to prevent a flexible water hose rupturing at your property

1. Always get your plumber to install the flexible water hoses

Always have a plumber install the flexible hoses. A plumber will choose the right length hose to ensure it’s not too loose or taut as either incorrect installation will cause the braiding to unravel and the hose to break which will cause a major leak. Flexible hoses are easy to cross thread or overtighten which can fracture the rubber seal connection. A plumber will ensure the hose is installed correctly.

2. Regularly check your flexible hoses for rust or fraying

Check your hoses every couple of months by running your fingers along the hose. Be careful when you do this because the metal fibres can be sharp if they have started to unravel. If you do find a rusted spot or part of the braid on the hose is starting to unravel, get it replaced as soon as possible. I’d recommend turning off the water if you leave the house until the plumber arrives just for extra caution.

3. Have mini stop taps on all water feed connections

All taps and fixtures should have mini stop taps so they can be isolated in an emergency. Get your plumber to install Arco valves or mini stop valves on the water lines that have flexible hose connections.

This means if you have the unfortunate experience of the flexible hose breaking and leaking full bore water, a valve under the sink or basin can be turned to stop the water. This will hopefully buy more time and prevent more damage than if you had to run outside and turn the water main off.

Secondly, it makes it easier for the plumber to replace next time when needed and therefore less labour costs.

water flexible hoses under sink
There are mini arco valves on the cold water. These connections direct water to the dishwasher and Zip Hydrotap under the sink.

4. Replace existing hoses with more current, durable flexi hoses

Your plumber will be able to recommend which flexible hoses are the best and have a reputation for quality. Replace all existing hoses with their recommended choice.

When you purchase a new tap, the box will supply their own braided flexible hoses so this can’t always be changed. Again, ask your plumber what they recommend.

5. Keep cleaners and chemicals away from the steel hoses

Cleaners and chemicals can accelerate the deterioration of your flexi hose.  A rusted and corroded flexi hose indicates the flexi hose is going to burst and is at the end of its material life. Remove cleaners and chemicals to reduce the likelihood of a chemical reaction.

The damage caused by a leaking flexible hose can be expensive and inconvenient.  If you go away on holiday, consider turning off the water to the flexible hoses. This will ensure you don’t come home to a house with an indoor pool.

Let me know if you’ve ever had water flexible hoses burst at your home? Go and check all your hoses now to ensure they aren’t frayed, rusted or corroded.

 

Face the Future With a Smile – Easter 2016

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easter 2016 smile at the future

I’m glad that Easter was early this year. I have been in need of a break from routine after having my head behind a computer screen most nights since our holiday in October last year. I still haven’t found a way to get ahead with my blogging, but that just means you get to read posts that have been written in the moment.

I had many plans to work on a few projects over the long weekend, but my growing pile of books and tv shows that I haven’t had time to indulge in, beckoned stronger. It was a good mini break – and when you add family time and chocolate… well the long weekend couldn’t have been more perfect.

Easter Eggs

 

easter egg eating

We have our usual Easter Egg hunt on Good Friday. The girls had fun looking for their eggs, although I think next year Jacob will have to make it a bit harder because all the eggs were found within 5 minutes! All three couldn’t wait to hog into their eggs before dinner.

easter egg hunt

We had our neighbors over for dinner and they have 6 month old twin boys. Wrangling dinner with a baby brought back memories of when Jacob and I used to tag team holding our babies while we ate dinner. While I’ve sometimes been sad that my baby rearing days are over, I’m glad I’m done. That first year with a baby is beautiful, but hard.

Saturday morning we spent time with my brother and sister-in-law shopping for winter clothes for Esther. It was nice to spend time together and have extra hands and eyes to watch over Maggie and Phoebe. Phoebe likes to bolt and dart between aisles and hangers of clothes. I rarely let her out of the pram or trolley. She had to be rescued a few times by her Aunt and Uncle. My brother rescued a chocolate bunny in Target that Phoebe found and was about to eat it’s ears. There is never a dull moment with toddlers!

Phoebe

As usual, I had plumbing enquiries in the week leading up to Easter. I know the long weekend is the perfect time to do a bit of DIY, but my stomach still clenches when I hear about people doing their own plumbing. I reckon a fair few plumbers will be busy this week fixing up jobs that didn’t go to plan. Let me know if you’re a plumber who finds themselves busy this week because of a DIY gone wrong.

Sunday morning we went to help serve at church that was held at the RICC centre to accommodate the large number of people that come in and out of the services on Easter Sunday. A mini fair for the kids was being organized and volunteers were needed to man each amusement activity. When we arrived, the amusements weren’t to arrive till later that day, which for an organized person like myself, found it rather annoying to be told we had to wait till midday to help supervise the amusements. Thankfully they arrived a little earlier than expected so the families that decided to stay a little longer, got the benefit of seeing the animal farm and climbing this awesome jumping castle. My reaction to the changes on Sunday morning wasn’t very gracious. It seems I still don’t like change at the last minute even though we’ve experienced the most change in our lives in the last couple of years.

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Esther and Maggie climbing this awesome Jumping Castle.

 

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Phoebe drawing on the blackboards that some of the dads knocked up together last week for the Easter services.

 

After quietly contemplating the message in the service, I reflected on life and it’s messiness that can bind us and keep us from being where we want to be. I’ve been stressed about issues this year that have been out of my control and it’s been easy to allow my mind to slip into a stressful state where I negatively think things will never change. It’s in those moments I know I need to stop, and bind that negative thought with positivity and face the future with a smile.

The Easter message is definitely a reason to face the future with a smile because we know that our stresses and problems are only temporary. Still hard nonetheless to face, but in the grand scheme of life, they are little and shouldn’t overtake our focus.

I’m looking forward to having slower mornings now that it’s school holidays. Sometimes a change in routine is as good as a holiday.

I hope your Easter break has been a good one. It’s been one of our best ones yet.

Tell me how did you celebrate Easter? Did you do any DIY over the long weekend? How much chocolate did you eat?

I’m linking with Essentially Jess for IBOT.

Gone Before Their Time – Why The Easter Message is so Important

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gone before their time

Gone before their time. We say this when we lose a baby. A child. A teenager. A young woman or man. A mum or dad. A young grandparent. A new retiree.

Despite the trials and hurt that can be experienced on this earth, we still recognize the blessing of life. We understand the joy in being given the opportunity to live in a world where we can experience love, joy, dreams and all the best things life can offer.

swinging child

We don’t think of all the pain a person will miss when they die young. We think about the good things they never get to touch, feel or experience. We think of our own loss; of the memories we won’t be able to share with them.

The heartbreak of a father not being able to walk his daughter down the aisle on her wedding day, or the mum who won’t get to see her son play their favourite game on Saturday. The grandparent that didn’t get to meet their future grandchildren or the generations after them, and the child that never got to graduate from school and live in the big wide open world.

Gone before their time is a phrase of tragedy. But it can be viewed differently when we understand the Easter message and why God sent Jesus to die on the cross.

gone before their time

Eternity was set in our hearts from the moment we were created but we all know that nothing on this earth lasts forever. The fall made certain of that. But if we view life on this side of eternity, it’s hopeless and depressing. Understanding that there is a life beyond the one we live offers hope and gratitude of a glorious future.

God’s dreams for our lives don’t die the day we breathe our last breath. His plans for our life extend beyond our physical life on this Earth. I take heart from this because if there are dreams I never get to see happen this side of life, I know they will definitely take place in the next one.

But there is still a purpose to the life we live now and God still speaks to us and directs us in this life so that the plans He has for us do come to fruition – providing we are obedient and can discern His voice through the noise of the world.

Phoebe's feet

In 2004, the year before I had Esther, I had a vision. I had got up early to spend time reading my Bible and praying. For some reason I didn’t need to be at work early, so I had time to not rush by taking in the words and uttering prayers that were on my heart.

I was desperate to hear from God. So desperate. I wanted to hear from him. I wanted to see him. I didn’t consider the consequences of such a request. I remember praying with my eyes open, hands open to the air, uttering my prayers, wanting to pray for so many things, but overwhelmed with my many concerns. I think at the time I was concerned about difficulties with my plumbing apprenticeship and asking if plumbing was all there was for this girl who had dreamed of more. After a few moments I saw images – a vision started to play out on the tree outside my bedroom window. I was transfixed. I couldn’t take my eyes away. I was scared but also in awe of what was being revealed to me.

I was emotionally very moved by what I saw. As a result of seeing this vision I was half an hour late to work. Thankfully my dad knew that if I was late there was a pretty good reason for it.
It was this vision that cemented my faith in God, and I believed without a doubt that God was real, and I viewed the Bible as truth and a guide to help me live the life God had called me to live.

Having grown up in a family that has believed in God for generations, there were times when I doubted God’s existence. That doubt would occur over a prayer not answered, a healing not granted, just managing through difficult times and simple questions over why God didn’t step in to stop tragedies happen around the world. Surely if God loved us dearly, he would step in and save it from evil that would happen – like terrorism?

But God did step in. He stepped in over 2000 years ago by sending his Son Jesus to die on a cross. The Easter message is one of hope and gratitude: that a God who made us, whom we rejected, still did what was needed to reconcile a relationship back to Him. It’s a true story about love. Death isn’t the end no matter how much evil likes to cut lives short from their purpose.

Why the gore? Why couldn’t God just ‘fix’ our relationship with the snap of his fingers? Quite simply there is a spiritual world that required to be overthrown and Jesus birth and resurrection was the only way to fix the spiritual in the natural world.

The message of love at Easter often gets missed or ignored because of the public holidays, the chocolate eggs and hunting for a bunny. It often overshadows the true questions about why we are here and what God and Jesus have to do with us.

easter eggs and rabbits

But if we take part in traditions, and forget why Easter is celebrated and remembered, we’ve missed a greater truth about what this life is about and why faith in Jesus is a must both now and in the days ahead.

We often want to know where our loved ones go beyond the grave and the only ones that know are God himself and the individual – whether they chose to believe or not. Fear can’t be what drives us to God. A genuine curiosity into faith compels us to understand more. Understanding what true love is and what faith is about will give us wisdom to live in the days ahead.

Easter is a wonderful time of year to act on that curiosity and for those of us that do believe, to thank God for sending his son to endure a cruel death for our reconciliation back to Him.

From my family to yours, I hope you are able to spend some quiet time reflecting on what you believe. I hope you can understand how deeply God loves you, and his plans for your future are brighter than you could dream or imagine.

The days ahead on this earth are not going to get easier and there will be loud voices that will throw you off on what you should believe, but rather than live like a reed that sways in the wind, draw in truth so you can stand like a tree, a tree that can withstand the greatest storm.

Have a safe and blessed Easter.

Destruction on the Construction Site – A Tradie’s Response to Late Payments #HIT

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tradies response to late payments

On Tuesday I shared a news report that showed a video of two Australian tradesmen attacking a building site with chainsaws over unpaid invoices. The video was shared on Snapchat and was reposted to Facebook where Channel Nine news picked up the footage and shared this report.

https://youtu.be/52Uz-lP5yD8

The video has been viewed more than one million times (on Facebook) after being uploaded to the Uptrend Engineering and Construction Facebook page. The video was captioned, “When this guy’s boss didn’t pay his workers on time.. He is gonna learn the hard way to never do that again.”

The video is evidence that there are still builders who don’t pay their tradies on time. I know it’s common issue within the construction industry as it was brought up at the World Plumbing Day breakfast.

It’s the stressful side of running a business that’s not talked about enough. Unfortunately it’s not always a situation that can be avoided unless the tradesperson knows the full financial credentials and integrity of the builder.
Of course builders can also be caught in the middle too if they haven’t been paid by their client. The domino effect causes stress for all tradies involved.

But this is where there needs to be understanding of how important it is to have a business that isn’t functioning on payment to payment to pay their bills. By law, if a company has been issued an invoice and the claim has been made under the Building and Construction Industry Payments Act 2004 (Qld), it should be paid by the due date, no matter if the builder has been paid by the client.

If we bring the matter to a more personal level, I can’t tell Telstra I can’t pay their bill this month because I haven’t been paid. Telstra won’t care. It’s not Telstra’s fault I haven’t been paid and the same analogy can be used between a builder and their tradies.

So what do you do when you haven’t been paid? Usually stopping work altogether for the builder is the best approach. The Queensland Building and Construction Commission (QBCC) explain the process involved in pursuing further action to get a payment.
The QBCC state:

Once you have served a payment claim, you may be able to suspend work if the amount claimed remains unpaid. However, you can only do this under certain conditions. You can only suspend work if the person who owes you money didn’t:
◾pay the full amount claimed by the due date and didn’t serve you a payment schedule within time; or,
◾pay the amount stated in the payment schedule by the due date; or,
◾pay the amount decided by an adjudicator within five business days after the due date for payment.

You need to give the respondent two days’ notice in writing, stating that you are suspending work under the Building and Construction Industry Payments Act 2004 (Qld).

If you’ve been paid, you must start work again within three business days.

The biggest issue around late payments – or no payments at all is the stress it can cause to families who rely on this income to make ends meet. The domino effect hurts families and onsets anxiety in tradesmen who are the main breadwinner of their household.
If a company employs tradespeople or hires sub-contractors, they need to ensure they have money in the bank to pay for their bills even if they are still waiting on payments from their own clients.

The way our family plumbing business was able to manage with late payments was to always have a buffer of money in the account to pay our tradesmen. My dad was also wise in ensuring our eggs didn’t all come from the one basket – meaning we worked for a number of builders, not just a couple, so if one fell over, the hit wouldn’t hurt us too hard.

The reaction from the tradesmen in the video is not one that should be repeated (even if it feels good at the time) because it doesn’t achieve anything. It makes the issue worse.

As one commenter shared under the video, “He did this for not getting paid on time? If I took that attitude with my clients I’d be well and truly out of business. People think it’s easy being the boss and paying everyone on time. Well, it’s not easy at all.”
It might not be easy, but invoices need to be paid on time, every time.

Responding with damage to a construction site is certainly not the way to handle it.

What do you think? How have you handled a situation where you haven’t been paid on time? What steps did you take to get your late payments?

Home Improvement Thursdays

Last week on Home Improvement Thursday we had 4 blogs link up. Alix from The Builderette shared tips on how to improve the thermal performance of your home and her tips come at the perfect time with the weather starting to cool in some parts of Australia.

If you are a tradesperson and write a dedicated blog post on your company website, why not link your current blog post to this link up? It’s a great way to get more eyes on your blog and hopefully it will offer new information for our Home Improvement readers.

I hope you all have a safe and happy Easter.

Home Improvement Thursday Rules For Linking Up

If you’re a DIY, home organization, building, renovation, home makeover, home decorating, home maintenance or trade related blogger we’d LOVE you to link up with us below. Here are the HIT rules for how to link up and what you need to do once you have linked up.

Linkable posts, must centre around the topics of DIY, Renovations, Home Organisation, Home Improvement, Home Makeovers, Home Styling, or Home Maintenance.

You can share 1 post each week. Please make sure they are new to the “Home Improvement Thursday” party.

Linking is simple, find the little blue button at the end of the post that says, Add Your Link, and then pop in your URL, and follow the prompts.

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Oh The Embarrassment!

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In my senior year of high school, choosing what word or name I would have typed on the back of my school jersey was oh so nerve-racking. The jersey was going to be worn for the full year at school and beyond so it was important to get the wording right. I had opted to put Jonesy on my jersey because that was my nickname at school, but then my drama teacher suggested I be a bit more creative and put ‘Do Ya Get It?’ on the back. I would always say this after saying a joke or a story and it became my little phrase. I thought that was much cooler than Jonesy, so I rubbed out Jonesy and put ‘doyagetit?’ on the order form.

When I got my jersey it was awesome and I wore it with pride. It wasn’t until I wore my hair down that a friend pointed out to me my jersey read ‘tit?’ I was so embarrassed and vowed to always wear my hair up when wearing my jersey. But I couldn’t not see it even when I looked at the whole phrase. I couldn’t believe I hadn’t picked it up earlier. Looking back now it shouldn’t have been a big deal, but back then I was embarrassed to have tit written on my back.

I wish that was the only time I had made a writing or typing error, but it’s not. I once sent minutes of a meeting mistyping my sales manager’s name with Penis instead of Denis. P and D aren’t anywhere near each other on the keyboard but I somehow typed it and didn’t proofread before emailing it out. Thankfully my colleagues found it hilarious. And possibly a bit of prophecy because the sales manager could be a bit of a … well the word rhymes with tick.

Anyway, last week, I had an interesting conversation with a company about sponsored content on my blog after the recent change with Google hitting bloggers if they don’t share the right links on posts they have been gifted product to write. I brought up the issue with a company that gives me a bit of sponsored content and have been great to work with… until I was told I couldn’t disclose to my readers I was being paid for sponsored content.

I told them I couldn’t do that which means I won’t be able to do any more work for them. To get the drama off my chest I headed to a Facebook group page with some of my close blogging buddies, organizing details to catch up at the end of the week. I went to start a new post on the page to discuss my conversation and it was quite detailed. It wasn’t until I pressed publish I realized I had posted it on my personal Facebook page and not on the group page so EVERYONE could publicly read my little rant. I deleted straight away, but of course some friends got to read it and I had to apologise and I did get cheek burn. I’m not ashamed of it because I don’t have anything to hide.

I have done a mix of follow and no-follow links on my sponsored posts in the past. From what I understood (and what had been explained to me), as long as the brand fit with the content on my blog, there was no issue and most of the trade related companies have been a great fit for my blog. I also asked bigger bloggers who I admire what they did.

I understand the blogger frustration of being asked to do a sponsored post and offer a follow link when Google advises it should be no follow. I had hoped the recent change of Google penalizing bloggers for gifted content will stop follow links being asked for in sponsored content, but it hasn’t. Until it’s law I don’t think anything will change. Not all bloggers understand the ramifications of sharing a follow link.

Just for clarification, all sponsored content on The Plumbette, past and future are no-follow links and will always be disclosed at the top of the post.

Anyway that wasn’t the only embarrassing thing that happened to me last week.

When I went to pick up Esther from school last Thursday she pointed out quite loudly down the corridor ‘Mum what’s on your bottom?’
A quick back glance and moving my dress around to see what she was talking about revealed I had sat in chocolate. Phoebe must have smeared her chocolate hands on our black leather couch which I had sat on. The brown marks were across my bottom so they looked like period stains or poo. Oh the embarrassment!

I walked home with my head held high, pushing my semi-trailer pram and hoping no one would tell me I had stains on my dress.
Lesson learned, don’t wear a white dress when you treat your kids to some chocolate. It will come back to bite you on the arse.

Literally.

Had any “oh the embarrassment” moments lately? What makes your cheeks burn? The ones on your face, of course. 

I’m linking up with Essentially Jess for IBOT.

Don’t Let Stereotypes Stop You From Your Dream Career

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just be you smashing stereotypes

The irony of smashing stereotypes when you’re a woman working in a male-dominant industry is you will be stereotyped by your sexual preference and childhood.

One of the first questions I was asked at TAFE by another apprentice was if I was a lesbian. When I told him I wasn’t, he told me I was the first female tradie he had come across who wasn’t gay. I asked how many female tradies he had come across and he admitted only one. But, because she was gay, he assumed all female tradies would be the same. I thought the assumption was interesting. I never thought my sexual orientation would be up for discussion at TAFE. And that all female tradies should fit a certain mould.

The reality is as soon as you do something different, you will be judged. People will want to diagnose why you’ve chosen to go a certain way so they can comprehend why you’ve made the decision to go against the grain.

I’d like to think that through education and awareness, one’s sexual orientation shouldn’t matter on why certain careers are chosen when they are against the industry norm.

I also hope that girls don’t think they need to be a ‘tomboy’ in order to choose a trade as a career.

That generalization is old thinking. It shouldn’t matter who you are or what you do that determines your decision to work in a male dominant career (and vice versa for guys working in a heavily female dominant industry). If you have a genuine interest in the job and think it’s a job you’d enjoy working in, I’d say that that’s enough motivation to give it a go.

I also don’t think you should act in a certain way to be more accepted. Wanting to belong is a general human need and we all want to get along with our colleagues on the site, but not to the detriment of our own standards and beliefs.

One of the best traits you can bring to the worksite is yourself. Just be you. No pretenses, no acting. Don’t succumb to pressure that you should be a certain way or act ‘manly’ to fit in on the construction site. There is no blueprint of what a tradie should be. Pretending to be someone you’re not just so you’re accepted onsite is a hard act to keep. Being true to yourself is the most important quality you can bring to the construction site.

just be you quote

So if you are wanting to work in construction, don’t let fear or pressure tell you you should be a certain way. And certainly don’t let stereotype classifications discourage you from taking a plunge into your trade career.

Do stereotypes affect your career? Ever felt judged for going against the grain? What did you do to handle it? Just be you.

How to Choose The Right Hot Water Unit For Your Home

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how to choose the right hot water unit

This is a Sponsored Post for Energy Australia

If you’ve ever built a house, you will know how important it is to choose the right hot water unit for your home.

There are different models, varying sizes and energy ratings to consider and it can become a little overwhelming.

As a maintenance plumber, this predicament would require an on the spot decision.

It often came down to budget and if a certain hot water system was available for instant install.

Even though winter is a fair few months away, it’s common for hot water units to stop working. It’s the worst time to be without hot water as hot showers are a necessity in winter.

To help you decide, here are some tips on how to choose the right hot water unit for your home. If you’re a plumber, feel free to add your own comments below.

Gas, Electric or Solar?

Electric hot water units used to be the popular choice for hot water units, but once electricity prices sky rocketed and we became more aware about climate change, gas and solar became more desirable.

Over the years electric hot water units have become much more affordable, but heat pumps, gas storage, gas continuous and solar units are dearer to supply and install.

I’ve only ever heard good reports on solar hot water systems and if you choose a reputable brand, the system can last between 15 – 20 years.

Electric hot water units and gas storage hot water units have a lifespan of 10-15 years.

Continuous gas hot water units can vary, offering a longer lifespan as the water doesn’t sit in the unit itself which can cause issues in storage hot water systems.

The key points to think about when choosing the energy type for your hot water unit is:

  • How much you can afford for the unit and how much are the ongoing energy costs to keep the hot water unit running?
  • Is your roof the right pitch and does it get enough light for solar panels to feed a solar hot water unit?
  • Do you have a natural gas line feeding your home?
  • If not, do you have space for LPG gas cylinders to feed to your hot water unit?

hot water in bath

Gas

A continuous gas hot water unit is a water unit that heats water on demand and doesn’t store hot water so you never run out.

Associated costs for running a gas hot water unit is obviously the water supply and gas supply. You also need an electricity connection to light the burner.

This is something all homeowners need to be aware of. Older models required manually lighting the burner, but these days most units require a power supply.

The advantages of a continuous gas hot water unit means you never run out of hot water.  Gas is usually much cheaper than electricity.

The unit is also compact and can be hung on an outside wall – although there are conditions of placement next to windows and door openings.

In some cases, houses with a lot of openings are unable to have a continuous gas hot water unit because the outdoor area won’t meet the conditions of the gas installation.

Energy Australia can assist you with your gas hot water unit installation and ensure the system placement meets the gas code. If you gas hot water unit ever needs to be serviced, Energy Australia can provide maintenance call outs through their home services.

Electric

You need to check with your local council on whether you can install an electric hot water unit.

There was a time in Brisbane where homeowners were forced to install a greener hot water system (solar, heat pump or gas), but the laws were relaxed to accommodate household budgets.

There is debate on how much a heat pump hot water unit will save you on electricity costs. Some models have been recalled because of service issues.

There used to be rebates that could be claimed if you installed one of these hot water units.

Many of these have now expired or are no longer offered. It’s still worth researching in your own state if any subsidy is offered for installing a heat pump.

The cons of a mains pressure electric hot water unit is you are limited to how much hot water you can use as it’s limited to the size of the tank. They also use more electricity, which adds more to your electricity bill.

A heat pump uses less electricity so it is a much more environmentally friendly solution.

hot shower

Solar

Solar hot water units are a great system to go with if you really are keen to save energy and utility costs.

They can be a big investment when purchased and installed, but you will see a reduction in utility supply costs.

It’s important to choose a plumber that has a solar endorsed license to install a solar hot water system.

The long term benefits of solar hot water is it uses less electricity, saving energy and utility costs.

Researching hot water units now, helps making the decision easier in the future. You don’t want to make a rash decision when you unexpectedly have to replace your hot water unit.

The most energy efficient model may not be within your price range, so keep an open mind and choose what you can afford and what you’re prepared to live with.

How did you choose the right hot water unit for your home? Have you ever had to make a spur of the moment decision on a home appliance?

This post has been written in accordance to my Disclosure Policy.

It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Easter – Easter Home Decorating

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It was beginning to look a lot like Easter on Boxing Day last year. I was gobsmacked to see hot cross buns in the bakery section of Woolworths on Boxing Day last year. I was tempted to buy some, but I’m a bit of a traditionalist and like to purchase my hot cross buns in the month leading up to Easter. Nevertheless, our letterbox has been brimming with junk mail advertising all manner of chocolate eggs and Easter paraphernalia.

To get into the Easter spirit I’ve decorated our dining table and tv cabinet with a few things I bought from Target, Kmart and Dusk. I also used décor I’ve kept in storage from last year.

Easter Decorating – It’s beginning to look a lot like Easter

easter decorating dining table

 

Easter egg decoration

 

easter egg decoration

 

TV Cabinet Easter Decorating

 

easter egg decoration

 

easter egg decorating

After taking some photos of my efforts, I realized I’m not much of a photographer, but the pictures give you an idea of what I’ve got set up.

Easter Bonnets

I have also been crafting with the kids because Esther has her school Easter Hat Parade coming up and I didn’t want to leave it to the last minute decorating a hat. I came up with 3 easy, last minute Easter hat ideas if you need some inspiration for your own creation.

Easter Egg Bonnet

 

easter bonnet paper plate

 

easter egg bonnet

 

Phoebe wearing Easter hat

We’ve also been making Easter Cupcake Case Baskets which are so much fun to make and fill with Easter eggs.

easter cupcake case basket

I say it every year, but Easter has come around quick this year. Have you found that too?

 

 

 

When The Highs and Lows of Life Collide

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Trigger Warning for those who have experienced child loss.

Early Friday night our home phone rang. When I picked it up it was my brother Andrew apologizing for ruining my big day.

I burst into tears and we both cried on the phone together.

Last Friday had been a day of epic emotions – when the highs and lows of life collide.

The morning started with me scrolling through Facebook at 4am in the morning as I woke up with a stomach full of nerves about being presented with QLD’s first women in plumbing ambassadorship and having to make a speech in front of 350 guests, including the QLD Premier Anastacia Palaszczuk, at a World Plumbing Day breakfast organized by the Master Plumbers’ Association of QLD.

As I tried to focus on something other than my nerves, I saw a message on Facebook from my brother to pray for his wife (my sister-in-law) who was expecting their first child and she had woken up in a lot of pain and a lot of blood.

I immediately got out of bed to call my brother to find out what was going on. The news wasn’t good – it was a matter of life or death for my sister-in-law and their bub.

My nerves were now forgotten and I burst into tears and rang my dad to let him know because Andrew wasn’t able to call family as he needed to be with his wife in hospital .

I have friends and friends of friends who have been through a similar fate and I knew that this news was not good.

My parents arrived at my place at 5:45am, as my mum was going to take Esther to school for me and look after my younger two so I could attend the breakfast with Jacob and my dad.

On the way to the breakfast I was crying and very emotional. Any sign of makeup that I had put on that morning was washed away from my tears.

As soon as we arrived at the breakfast I got into socializing mode, catching up with plumbers dad and I passed a lot of work to when we closed our business back in 2013. It was great seeing some of the female plumbers I met at the breakfast at Parliament House too. The socializing was enough to distract me from what was happening to my brother and sister-in-law – just so I could do what was required of me during the function.

Part of me still couldn’t believe I was receiving recognition for being a plumber and writing a blog. When the Premier mentioned parts of my blog in her speech, I was impressed and immediately thought holy heck… you just never know who will actually read your blog.

Once I was presented my award, I made a speech sharing my plumbing career thus far and how The Plumbette came about. The moment I thanked my dad for being a strong influence in my life, was the exact time his mobile phone vibrated with a message from my mum saying my brother’s baby had been born stillborn at 19 weeks and 1 day – we welcomed and said goodbye to Christopher Robert Jones.
After my speech I sat down to eat breakfast and check my phone to see Andrew had announced the sad news on Facebook.

I was devastated. And I couldn’t believe the timing of something so tragic could coincide with something so joyful.

World Plumbing Day will now be remembered as the date we gained and lost a son, grandson and nephew.

Thank you to all of you who have messaged me, left comments or sent emails sharing their condolences and support that I can pass on to my brother and sister-in-law.

When my brother apologized for ruining my day, I told him he was being ridiculous as none of us can predict what will happen in any moment. We’d like to think we can control our life, and to a certain point we can until the unexpected happens and we’re reminded, we’re not in control at all.

Through the whole ordeal, we’ve clung to our faith. Knowing we will see Christopher in Heaven, but not understanding the timing or why it happened in the first place.

None of us are immune to life’s tragedies, but we can control where we spend our eternity if we believe in Jesus and that God’s plan for our life is beyond the life we have here on this side of eternity.

That’s all my family has clung to through this heartbreak.

What have you clung to when you’ve experienced life’s lows?

I’m linking up with Essentially Jess for IBOT.

It’s Ok To Make Mistakes

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One of my biggest fears when working on a construction site was making a mistake. I put a lot of pressure on myself to perform because I knew a lot of eyes were watching me. I felt I had to prove my worth. I cringe over some of the mistakes I made, but thankfully most could be rectified and they weren’t big enough to put anyone in danger.

No one likes to make mistakes. But sometimes you need to make them so you can learn from them. There are no perfect apprentices or tradespeople that don’t make mistakes. I’ve seen some tradesman make huge mistakes – coring holes in the wrong area, splashbacks being measured wrong twice – costing a fortune in labour costs and materials, apprentices dropping brand new toilet bowls on the last day of fit off for a bathroom – the list is endless. If tradies are human, they’re going to make mistakes.

If you do make a mistake, don’t hide it. Yes, it can be humiliating to admit you’ve messed up, but facing the music shows more of your integrity than hiding and blaming the mistake on someone else.

Some of the mistakes I have made on the job have been picking up the wrong gear from Reece, to drilling through a concrete floor when I was only meant to go 20-30mm in.

Mistakes can be proof that you are trying, although you won’t want to be making them all the time.

I know of a young project manager that was employed by one of our commercial clients. The project manager made an incorrect order and got the order delivered to the work site. When he realized his mistake, instead of owning up to it and organizing a truck to pick up the delivery and keep it for another job, he asked the demolishers to dump the delivery. The demolishers did as they were asked but word went back to the head manager who was furious because the mistake had not only cost the company money, but it had been secretly destroyed so the mistake couldn’t be found out. The project manager was sacked and even though I felt sorry for him, I also thought he was a bit dumb. There was no need to destroy a delivery that could have been used for another job. If only he had realized his mistake in hiding his stuff up could have prevented him from losing his job.

don't deny your mistakes

Don’t bury yourself in fear of making a mistake. If you make one, fix it and if you can’t, talk to someone onsite for advice on how to fix it. If it’s going to cost you money to get your mistake fixed – then hold your head high and face the consequences.

To avoid mistakes always measure twice. Always check the plans twice. Arrive to work being the best you can be – that could mean not having a late night or avoiding drinking the night before going to work.

The moment you realise it’s ok to make a mistake and your boss and colleagues make them too, you can learn to relax a bit more in your work, while still producing your best output.

Have you ever made a mistake at work? How did you handle it? How did your boss react to your mistake?

World Plumbing Day, A Women in Plumbing Ambassadorship and a Family Tragedy

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Today is World Plumbing Day. A day where plumbers are recognized for their extraordinary contribution to the health and safety of the community. We often forget how blessed we are to live in a country where clean drinking water can be accessed via a tap and our waste can be flushed away and treated.

When I started my apprenticeship in 2006, I didn’t realise how much expertise was needed to install plumbing systems. Apprentices would complain in class about the maths involved in working out pipe sizing installations and designing stacks. Understanding the why behind the installation was important – not just for knowledge sake but as an accountability to ensure what is installed is done right the first time. It can be a matter of sickness or health.

It’s this expertise that has put the plumbing career in the spotlight. Contrary to belief, plumbing is not a dumb trade. Often plumbers don’t charge what they are worth because they undervalue their skills.

The World Plumbing Council recognises the important part plumbers play in providing a health service to communities around the world, and for this reason World Plumbing Day was created – a day to congratulate plumbers on a job well done.

It’s also a day to talk about issues that plumbers face in providing this essential service to us all. I was invited as a guest to this morning’s breakfast and I brought along my husband, Jacob and my dad to support me during a special announcement. As dad and I sat and listened to the issues facing plumbers at present, we were transported back to when we were running our business and facing similar issues of not being paid on time and the stresses of running a business and being present with our family. While I listened, I was encouraged by the passionate men who want plumbers to be successful in their business and weren’t afraid to ask the hard questions to our Minister for Housing and Public Works, Mick de Brenni, on what the government can do to help plumbers.

The Master Plumbers’ Association of QLD (MPAQ) has always supported plumbers by providing courses and services to help plumbers be the best they can be while running their business.

The MPAQ organized this morning’s World Plumbing Day breakfast, which had over 350 guests including Premier Annastacia Palaszczuk who presented me with QLD’s first Women in Plumbing Ambassadorship for QLD.

The Plumbette with QLD Premier

I have been so excited about this Ambassadorship and I can’t wait to work with Penny Cornah, the Executive Director of MPAQ and the team in promoting more women to choose plumbing – or any trade as a career.

I believe that the trade industry has untapped opportunities for women, but there needs to be more awareness for girls that graduate from school that they can be a tradie.

I also believe businesses need to see the important part they can play in offering a female an apprenticeship. I understand the hesitations and concerns about whether a girl can handle the work and what to do if she decides to start a family. I totally get these concerns because dad and I went through these ourselves when I became a mum myself.

female plumber with kids

But I don’t believe fear should stop us from taking that plunge and taking a chance on giving someone their dream job. I’m also not naïve to believe that our apprentices won’t need support to get through their training. NCVER figures for 2014, as reported by Migas, show only 46% of apprentices finish their trade. We need to get that figure up.

I look forward to collaborating with the MPAQ to promote more women into plumbing. There are only 46 female plumbers in QLD. I want to see this figure grow – but not without ensuring there is support for these female apprentices because it can be hard working in a male-dominant trade.

I want to thank all of you for the wonderful messages of encouragement with the announcement of my ambassadorship. The Plumbette would not be here if I didn’t have loyal readers who support my blog. Thank you for the personal messages you send me when a post has resonated with you. This is the best reward of all, as I want my words to make a difference. But words also need action and that is where my Ambassadorship will play a part in seeing these changes be made to help promote a better plumbing industry.

On a sad note, I would appreciate prayers for my family. While I was receiving my Ambassador award this morning, my brother and sister-in-law gave birth to my nephew who was unfortunately stillborn (at 19 weeks and 1 day) at 7am this morning.

Today has been a rush of emotions from the very highs to deep lows.

We just never know what life will throw at us at once. I’m devastated about the loss because it would have been the first grandson for our family and I couldn’t be there for my brother and sister at their worst time. To show how big my brother’s heart is, all while going through this heartbreak of his own he was able to congratulate me on my award and ask how my speech went. Love you so much Andrew and Heather. I know your little one is in Heaven and Grandpa Jones would have been at Heaven’s gates looking forward to meeting the grandson bearing the family name. RIP Christopher Robert Jones born 11th March 2016.

You Certainly Know How To Style – #HITmyStyle Competition Winner Announcement

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know how to style kitchen

During the month of February, The Builder’s Wife and I held a #HITmyStyle competition where anyone could share a photo of a styled room in their home on Instagram to win a $100 Coles Myer Voucher. We had more entries than we expected! You certainly know how to style. It was so much fun to see the different rooms that entered the competition.

Thank you to everyone who entered. Vicki from Boiled Eggs and Soldiers won the voucher with this stunning entrance way. The colours and styling were perfect. I love how the light reflected from the mirror off the darker feature wall. I also thought the styling on the hall table was well balanced and the peacock feathers worked well with the feature wall and the colours in the living room. The plants placed next to the table was also visually pleasing. I wouldn’t mind coming home to that kind of entrance way. If you want to see more of Vicki’s renovation updates, check out her blog. (She also shares fabulous recipes too).

  There were many entries that got my attention – especially the kitchen and bathroom entries which I couldn’t not feature. I think you will be able to agree with me that these spaces are stunning. What’s not to love about Melinda from A Beaut Home’s kitchen renovation? The gooseneck mixer and the tile splash back work well together. What makes the tile splash back even more visually captivating is the use of black grout. Love the timber benchtops, offset with white cabinetry. There’s a whole lot to love in this kitchen. Follow @abeauthome on Instagram for more house reno pictures.      

Cyndie from Mademoiselle Slimalicious or @FrenchcookinOz (as she’s known on Twitter and Instagram), also entered her kitchen. A perfect example of how to combine the bench as a dining space. White kitchens will never get old and Cyndie has styled her kitchen beautifully.

  This kitchen tile splash back entered by Rach @RachJax is very well done. Love the change behind the stove – I don’t think I’ve seen that before. This was definitely a worthy contender, and what’s more the tiling was done by the lady herself!    

Today I tiled until I just couldn’t tile anymore. Current state: pooped. #thejacksonsrenovate A photo posted by Rach (@rachjax) on

Another white kitchen renovation was also entered from Francis @fll22. If you have a small kitchen, using white from the floor up will give the illusion of a bigger space. I also love the storage maximization with overhead cupboards.

#hitmystyle new kitchen renovation

A photo posted by Frances (@fll22) on

  Last, but not least, this entry from @mel_from_home_envy – a spotless kitchen styled with coastal and tribal treasures. I love a spotless kitchen, although it’s rarely seen in our house.    

Once again thank you to everyone for your entries. We will hold similar Instagram competitions like this in the future.

Home Improvement Thursdays
Last week on Home Improvement Thursday, I was intrigued by Michelle’s post on Jarrah Jungle showing how to install and paint Dulux wall paper. It’s well worth a read if you are planning a feature wall with a difference in your home. She shares the before and after images of her dining room.

dining room update
Alix from The Builderette explained the difference between a fixed price and cost plus when getting building quotes.

the builderette

Looking forward to seeing what you share this week. In the meantime, Easter is over 3 weeks away, It would be great to see some Easter Vignette or centerpiece posts in preparation for Easter to give those bloggers who don’t usually link up a chance to join in on the Home Improvement Thursday fun.


The People You Meet in Qantas Club

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It’s a bit of a joke that wherever my mum goes, she and my dad meet famous people. Last year they helped with a conference in Sydney and shared the hotel lift with Justin Bieber and Brooke Fraser (not at the same time).

Mum and dad have flown home from New Zealand in Business Class with The Wiggles (the original crew) and it was funny watch all the kids to walk past the singers, not recognizing their faces because they weren’t in their turtleneck outfits.

I remember as a teen, mum and dad sat next to the band Aqua at the Stamford Plaza for lunch. I asked mum if she got a signature and she didn’t even attempt it because they were obnoxious and rude to the staff at the restaurant.

I’ve seen some famous people from afar in my lifetime. (Although after this post is written, I will think up of many I’ve met in person) Jacob thinks we walked past Claudia Schiffer in Paris. She was gone before we could get a second look to see if it was definitely her. I’ve never doubted Jacob’s eye for details because he was the only one that spotted a rare lioness when we were on an African Safari.

At one time or another I will see someone famous in the Qantas Club, but I don’t actively look for them because the food buffet is more on my radar than scouting for celebrities.

On the weekend, I couldn’t help but notice the celebrities because I literally walked into them or they came and sat next to me.

In the Qantas Business Lounge (Brisbane), Mum and I walked into Mal Meninga. Now when I walk into someone I know, I usually give them a big smile and greet them with a ‘hi, it’s good to see you!’ and this is what I did to Mal who walked past me in a rush. I realized how stupid I must have looked and sounded when Mal hadn’t a clue who I was. Embarrassing!

There were no more celebrity encounters over the weekend until Mum and I checked into the Sydney Qantas Club on the way home. As I sat down to finish reading Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, I realized Zoe Foster Blake and her husband Hamish Blake sat down in the lounge chairs next to us.

I wasn’t sure whether to say hi or leave them be. After my Mal Meninga encounter, I was almost going to let them drink and read their paper in peace, until curiosity got the better of me. I trusted my instinct to say hi to Zoe because I knew her as a blogger and a previous writer for Mamamia. I approached Zoe first, saying I recognized her from her blog, to which she replied, she hadn’t written on it for a while. Zoe asked where I blogged and I told her I was very niche and wrote a plumbing blog and Hamish said that was great. Not in a ‘that’s great’ bugger off way, but in a genuinely interested type of way. He and Zoe agreed it was better to be niche than not when it came to writing a blog. We talked about the Parent Hotline video he did with Andy which was shared on a number of the parenting Facebook pages I write for. He said it had been picked up over in America and had been shared worldwide. Of course it was – it was freaking hilarious.

The encounter was short and friendly. I didn’t ask for a photo because I didn’t want to come across as desperate and Hamish’s hair wasn’t styled. I’m glad I took the time to say hi because they didn’t stay in the lounge for long. Hope it wasn’t because they were recognized after I said hi.

Have you met anyone famous? Made a complete fool out of yourself when you’ve recognized a celebrity?

I’m linking with Essentially Jess for IBOT.

What to do When You’re Told You’re Not Good Enough

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Not all of us have a natural aptitude to do the job we passionately want to do.

We can doubt we’ve made the right choice when a particular skill doesn’t come easily to us, but do we just give up and concede ‘If I can’t bend copper pipe, I can’t be a plumber?

No. It takes practice to attain certain skills in a trade and a good dose of patience and resilience to finally master a skill.

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Plumbing or any type of trade work does not come naturally to me. But I tried to keep my focus on why I was doing my apprenticeship in the first place.
Often, the moment a stress or hardship presents itself on our journey to becoming a tradesperson, we can be tempted to write ourselves off as no good, and we shouldn’t have started in the first place.

That’s just negative talk going on in our head. No one is born a natural plumber, electrician, builder, tiler, carpenter – whatever trade we choose to do. Just because we love to do something, doesn’t mean we’re going to be any good at it.

We need to believe in ourselves and work through the doubt.

What happens though when the table is turned and it’s our TAFE teacher, a colleague or our employer telling us we’re no good? That can hurt. I know what that’s like because it happened to me.

For me, the words hurt because I’m naturally a competitive person and have always been used to being classed as a top worker both at school, business college and in my previous jobs. Being told I wasn’t up to par with the other apprentices was a good hit to my pride. But you can’t go any lower than the bottom of the class and it gave me a fighting spirit to finish the apprenticeship and try to do better at each stage. You can imagine my surprise when a TAFE teacher rang my mum to say he was nominating me for an award. I honestly thought the teacher was joking.

Michael Jordan is a great example of someone who was told they were no good yet became successful. In high school, Jordan was cut from the high school basketball team. When the list of who made the team was put up, and Jordan couldn’t find his name, he went home, shut his door and cried.

But the disappointment gave Jordan resilience to try again. Michael told the Chicago Tribune, “It was good because it made me know what disappointment felt like,” he said. “And I knew that I didn`t want to have that feeling ever again.”

We all know that Michael Jordan went on to be a well-known, successful, professional basketball player.

If, like Jordan and myself, you get told you’re not good enough, take the hit, have a cry and then build yourself up to try again. Remember why you decided to choose a trade career in the first place and always remind yourself of your why.

It won’t be easy. Working towards your desired job is never a straight road. Each miss will give you an opportunity to try differently and that resilience will build your character.

Have you ever been told you’re not good enough for your job? How did it feel and what did you do about it?

Don’t Turn Blessings Into Curses

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Have you ever dreamed a dream, had all the steps fall into place and suddenly you’re living your dream and it’s nothing like how you imagined it?

Welcome to parenthood.

We dream of the baby, but have no idea how that little person will change the rest of our lives.

We then have that baby who turns our dream of becoming a mum into a frumpy, financially-stretched, sleep deprived banshee who just wants to pee alone and have a clean house.

Can I admit that I didn’t expect being a mum to three little ones was this hard? The more I’ve read and prayed about this season in my life, I remind myself that anything worthwhile takes hard work to attain and maintain.

Often dreams are different in reality because we haven’t lived them yet so we have little idea of what to expect when it finally does happen.

It doesn’t make the act of  dreaming less important. I’m happy with the life that I’ve chosen to live, I just wish I knew what I was getting myself into. And maybe I did, but I arrogantly pressed onward and thought I’d have the strength to do anything.

Last Thursday night I went on a date with Renee from Mummy Wife Me to see Elizabeth Gilbert. It was supposed to be a tri-date with Lauren from Create Bake Make. Lauren nabbed our tickets, but personal circumstances prevented her from attending.

When Lauren mentioned she had bought tickets for us all to see Elizabeth Gilbert, I asked if this was the author of Eat Pray Love. And it was. I couldn’t stand that book. But I had heard Elizabeth was inspiring to listen to in person.

So Renee and I trotted into the Con at Southbank to listen to Elizabeth Gilbert share about her latest book, only to be met with Mia Freeman sharing the stage with the best-selling author as she was facilitating the interview.

I tried to scrawl down notes in my little notebook, but after some time, I just sat and listened because I know I get more in when I’m not focused on writing things down.

One thing that Elizabeth mentioned that resonated with me was she was careful not to turn blessings into curses.

That sparked a conviction I didn’t see coming.

Since becoming a mum, and living the life I have always dreamed, I’ve been seeing more negative than positive. I’ve been seeing my blessings as curses. How shameful and selfish.

Elizabeth shared this phrase as she explained the success of Eat Pray Love and how the best-selling status of the book thrust her into the spotlight – which is every writer’s dream, but there are drawbacks that come with success.

Sometimes, those drawbacks override the blessing of success. Elizabeth was grateful for the reaction to her book, but also hoped the attention would turn to the next best author so she could continue to create without extra pressure.

Isn’t it true in our own lives – and I can vouch for this in my own life, the moment a certain dream becomes a reality, we focus on the negative aspects to the dream?

I’ve only ever written a couple of viral posts (viral posts are ones that get shared and read many times). It’s a blogger’s dream to write a viral post, until the trolls come out to play and say ‘how dare you write that, you have no life, you are nothing and you don’t know what you’re writing about.’ And then you become focused on the trolls and not how awesome your writing was to be read and shared so many times.  A perfect example of seeing a blessing as a curse.

Elizabeth had wise words about book reviews and opinions of what we create – it’s none of our business and everyone has a right to their opinion.
At the end of the day, we don’t create for other people. We create for ourselves.

I’ve been reading Elizabeth’s latest book, Big Magic (I’m only halfway through) and it’s given me new perspective on ideas and creative writing.

After Thursday night’s conviction, I’m determined to see my blessings as they are – blessings, not curses. This new movement of being mindful and grateful is a great place to start.

Have you ever looked at a blessing and only seen the negatives? How did you change your mindset?

I’m linking with Essentially Jess for IBOT.

How to Respond to Chauvinistic Tradesmen

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There were four types of tradesmen I encountered when I was an apprentice.

There were the tradesmen that enjoyed my presence onsite and couldn’t wait to tell their wives/girlfriends at dinner about how they worked alongside a female tradie. How did I know this? By the second day of working with such tradesmen, they would share at smoko how their missus responded with ‘go girl’ or ‘that’s awesome’. These tradesmen were gentlemen and were the best type of colleagues and managers to work with and for.

Then there were the tradesmen that wouldn’t say to my face they didn’t want me on site, but their demeanor said otherwise. Picking on the small hoop earrings I wore to site as it was an OHS issue, when another tradesman who had a single hoop or open hole piercing was not picked on. Issue granted, the hoop earrings were a bad idea but it was just one example of many. In essence, it would be one rule for the tradeswomen and something different for the tradesmen. Wanna check out my porn magazine darling? What do you think of this naked woman? My response: nothing. But you’re revealing more of your manhood, and you’re fully clothed.

The third type of tradesman were often managers or long time tradies who had been in the game for a long while. They ignored me onsite – and when I’d answer my dad’s phone, I was invisible. In some ways this treatment was better than the next type of male tradesman;

The chauvinistic tradesman who would scoff to my face (and anyone who cared to listen) I belonged behind the kitchen sink and not under it. Is it really a problem if a woman wants to do both?

Last week I saw a photo get shared on Facebook by A Woman’s Spark (a female solar service company), with 4 tradeswomen posing on a jobsite. The comments from men were humorous and revealed equality on the worksite has a long way to go.

One job site. Four female tradies

Posted by A Woman’s Spark on Wednesday, February 24, 2016

“Bitches seems to be in the wrong place get back in the kitchen!”

“What’re they actually doing? House looks like it was done ages ago”

“bet 2 blokes could do it quicker”

“To get to the kitchen you go “in” the house not “on”

“Really 3 people to hold one ladder…..”

And then this intelligent comment:

“Women can’t be sparkies”

I’m not going to share the names of the men who typed these comments, and there were heaps similar to this. All trying to outdo each other with their chauvinism and sexism. How inspiring.

Unfortunately, the post is proof (even if the comments were made in jest) guys still find it hard to accept women having a go on the tools.

So how does one respond to chauvinistic garbage?

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Image via Buzzfeed

Ignore it? Or respond with a witty answer? Tell them their brain is the size of their balls? (Wish I had the balls to use this one when I was onsite!)

We simply don’t have to respond because the joke is on them.

The world is slowly changing and like technology, old mindsets are boring, sad and unattractive.

Back in the day of my apprenticeship and working alongside other tradesmen, my response was often silence – with a dose of fear because I knew I was outnumbered.

It can be an intimidating environment to be in, even as a grown woman.

I know there are female tradeswomen and apprentices who face chauvinistic tradesmen day in and out on the job, not only in Australia, but around the world.

Ladies, the best response is to do your job well and to finish what you started.

The second thing you can do is to test them with this response, ‘Is that what you really think? That’s such old thinking. You are so much better than that.’

And tradesmen, you are better than that.

Old thinking can come back to bite you. A limited mind gets left behind.

How do you respond to chauvinism? Does it even require a response?

5 Home Improvement Projects You Should Consider Outsourcing

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This post has been written in collaboration with AdaptIt

We all know renovating a home or giving a room a facelift can do wonders for the house in terms of style and value. With Google at your fingertips, it’s not hard to search for a DIY project to update the interior of your home. But not all DIY projects go to plan. What may seem easy when done on TV or YouTube, can be a different reality trying to replicate at home. Here are 5 Home Improvement Projects you should consider outsourcing to the professionals.

1. Blinds. So many hardware and homeware stores sell ready-made blinds that can be hung yourself with the help of a power drill. What you may not be aware of is that these blinds won’t necessarily suit all windows. Finding ready-made blinds can be a nightmare if you’re looking for a specific size (hello my house with larger than normal windows!). Opt for a professional installer like AdaptIt to install your blinds so you don’t swear yourself silly, wasting time finding the right size.

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2. Painting is definitely a job that anyone can have a go at in their home, but if you have a big area to paint and a few feature walls, it might pay to outsource to a professional painter who will leave a perfect finish in those pesky corners that always seem to look messy when done yourself. You only have to watch The Block and see how hard it can be for the contestant to get their painting right. It can be a hard job to get right when done under extreme pressure and time constraints.

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3. Tiling. Tiling is not a licensed trade, so you can give it a crack if you’re keen to save some cash. Attention to detail is a must and often it’s a skill that is developed over time which is why tilers are so good at what they do. If you’re not so great at matching patterns or laying tiles in a straight line – and trust me I’ve seen some dodgy tiling done by clients in the past, hire a tiler to install the tiles for you.

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4. Interior Styling. Hiring a stylist to change the interior of your home can often be seen as an indulgence. But a good interior stylist will ensure your home looks how you want it to, without the need of overbuying homewares and cushions that don’t match with the aesthetic of your home. Stylists can bring your vision to life. They can also help you avoid budget blow outs when buying new décor.

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5. Landscaping. Plant a few trees, lay some grass and the yard can be done all in a day’s work. Except landscaping is now an art and requires skill in knowing what plants will work together when planted and layered in the garden. If you want to make a grand statement to the appearance of your home, consider using a landscaper to design your front and backyard. Your landscaper will recommend plants due to the style of your home, climate of where you live and your lifestyle.

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All plumbing and electrical jobs should be done by a licensed tradesperson. Not engaging in a licensed tradie means you are breaking the law and you’re opening yourself to being fined and having plumbing or electrical problems in the future.

Not all DIY projects can be a disaster. If you are handy on the tools and confident with your skills, why not give that home improvement project a go? Just be aware that it may take you double the time to complete it and you may not get the near perfect result you would expect if you had hired a professional to do it for you.

What home improvement jobs have you outsourced to the professionals?

This post has been written in accordance with my disclosure policy.

Maggie Turns 3 and Celebrates in Barbie Style

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On Saturday, my Maggie turned 3.

Holy Freaking Moly.

I remember holding Magdalene as a baby and having a ‘moment’ with her. She was only a day or two old and she looked deep into my eyes and I remember thinking how beautiful she was. Her eyes were stunning. I took a picture to capture the memory while Jacob held her. I still remember it 3 years on. I will never forget it.

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Maggie a couple of days old

 

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Maggie 8 days old, Photo by Luisa Dunn Photography

I generally decide to do a big party for the 3rd Birthday because by that age, kids understand what it’s all about. They understand they get presents and have a party – if their parents are willing to put one on.

The lead up to her Birthday and Party had been building over many weeks.

Maggie decided she wanted a ‘Pink Barbie Party’. I went to work choosing a colour theme and using Pinterest as a guide for the type of food to serve at the party.

I decided to use a pink, black and white colour theme which offered a great base for the food and I went for the high sugar options when it came to the party food. (sorry parents!)

Maggie’s day started with opening presents on our bed, with Esther close beside her, treating her sister like a princess and calling her the “Birthday Girl”.

Maggie and Esther

 

Maggie's 3rd Birthday

Food deliveries were made by Create Bake Make and Jojo’s Treat House. I like to delegate where I can so there is less stress on me in the kitchen. A lot of the food prep was done the night before. I set up the party table the night before so I wouldn’t be so rushed in the morning.

Barbie food Table

 

Barbie Cake
Cake made by Brisbane’s Best Baking Blogger – Create Bake Make

I decided to do a high tea style party where all the kids could sit at the table and the mess could be contained to one area. It worked well and I’ve made a mental note to do this for future parties.

Barbie Party

 

lolly skewers

 

Barbie Party Food

 

Barbie Party Food

We played pass the parcel (with Barbie Girl playing in the background), and pin the sunglasses on Barbie. I also bought plastic Barbie glasses that could be jazzed up with diamantes as a craft for the girls.

Barbie party games

 

Barbie glasses

Big W proved to be the best place to buy Barbie licensed party favours. The plates, tablecloth and party favour bags were purchased from Staks.

The party ended up being heaps of fun and I loved watching Maggie enjoy herself. The joy in her face is another memory I have captured in the memory bank.

Bec with maggie and esther

 

Maggie blowing out candles

 

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Parties can be expensive and time consuming to organise, but they make the perfect scene for memory making.

After putting the girls to bed later than usual on Saturday night, Jacob and I reflected on how blessed we are with our family of 3 girls, but most of all, grateful on how beautiful our girls are growing up to be inside and out. It’s a powerful love that we share and no matter how stressed life can be with finances or work, family is forever and what an honor it is to raise our girls in a time such as this.

How often do you organize a party for your kids? Do you choose certain years to hold a party or do you go all out and have one every year?

I’m linking up with Essentially Jess for IBOT.

Believe in Yourself

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On the very first day I started working for my dad, he handed me two encouragement cards. I kept them with me in my work folder and would sometimes read them when I’d need a pick-me-up.

The one card that resonated with me the most during those hard days as an apprentice or working on a construction site and feeling completely isolated, was a poem called Believe in Yourself. The author was not typed under the poem so I can’t credit the person who wrote it, but the words have been an encouragement for me not only as a plumber, but as a mother and a writer and a dreamer.

Believe in yourself
And in your dream
Though impossible things may seem.
Someday, somehow,
You’ll get through,
To the goal you have in view.
Mountains fall and seas divide
Before the one who in his stride,
Takes a hard road day by day
Sweeping obstacles away.
Believe in yourself
And in your plan
Say not – I cannot – but, I can.
The prizes of life we fail to win
When we doubt the power within.

No matter what your dream job is, there will always be hurdles.

Some of the biggest hurdles for women in construction are getting the opportunities to work as an apprentice in the first place.
Once you secure that job, it’s then proving you can do the job and you have what it takes to complete your apprenticeship. After you get your license, it’s then working out where you want to plant yourself for work. In that time you might choose to have a baby, which adds another obstacle to the dream job because sadly, pregnant tradies are, dare I say it, judged and seen as an inconvenience to the company. It’s part of the hesitation some companies hold when offering an apprenticeship to a woman and it requires a full blog post because it’s an issue young female tradies will face at some point.

So if you are an apprentice, and you are finding it hard to keep the dream alive, believe in yourself. You have the capacity to not only finish your apprenticeship, but to start your own business or work your way up to a management role.

Last week my devotional book shared this quote with me and I think it will encourage you too.

“If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere.” Author unknown.

Don’t be surprised if you’re having a hard time as you work towards your dream trade career. Believe in yourself and keep showing up each day because when you get through that difficult situation or season, you will look back and be thankful that you got through. The path is not guaranteed to be straight and easy when you work towards your dream job.

What’s the biggest hurdle you’re facing right now in your career?